Is your Man Off Sex?

REASONS The reasons for being off sex can be varied. Right from the physiological (but I wont get into that) to the mental. Psychosexual aspects unfortunately are rarely considered when it comes to a mans sexuality maybe because thats so unmanly! To accept that his sex organs are between his ears rather than his legs makes many a man squirm! But the importance of what he THINKS cant be emphasized enough. Because, as you think so yo

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At the Dawn of the Individual Revolution

Revolution, besides having many meanings, also includes a dramatic change in ideas or practice. And thats exactly whats happening to a lot many people today. Albeit delayed, the Indian person is now beginning to realize that he lives only once and since life is unpredictable and to an extent unreliable, why waste this precious existence going through the motions of mundane routinized living. So he literally and figuratively has taken

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Celebrity Marriages

Unfortunately, society teaches us to elevate and degrade people on the basis of their looks, wealth, achievements, etc. So what commonly happens is that film starsor models orsports persons,because of their high visibility, glamorous disposition, greatermoney earning capacity, etc. are looked upon as higher than and better than the common man and an aura or halo is placed around them. Having put them on a pedestal, it is then automati

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Commitment Phobia

So when should we tie the knot? Oh, Im not ready yet! When mydivorce comes through! (Which usually the personnever gets down to getting!).As soon asI move into my own house.Maybe when Im a little more settled.Maybe when Im sure that you love me more than you do your mother! Maybe, maybe, maybe. . . Sound familiar? How many people have we seen waiting endlessly for their knightin shining armour or forthe woman of their dreams!It is sai

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Working Well Together

Lets appreciate that not everyone can work well in groups. Some of us are too individualistic and thrive alone. Put that solitary worker into a group or team situation, and challenges suddenly become obstacles! To work well two-gether necessitates understanding fore-mostly who you are. If you are that die-hard individual and prefer single ventures rather than joint ones, accept that gracefully. Dont try and be something that youre inh

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Working Relationships

Relationships require work, hard, hard work. In the same way that we strive to climb the corporate ladder, be that sought after actor, and make a name for ourselves in whatever we decide to pursue equal effort, energy and devotion is required to make relationships succeed. Alas not too many of us realize let alone acknowledge this fact. And then we wonder why we drifted apart, fell out of love, or why we cant connect anymore. With wo

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Graceful Parting

It is said that the second most common stressor after death is separation and/or divorce. But it neednt be so if we can view our breakups with a different lens stoically, sensibly, realistically and even philosophically. Because our attitudes towards the termination of our relationship will go a long way in deciding how we react to and deal with it. Breakups do not have to necessitate breakdowns. Because we can choose the meanings we

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