For The Thinking Woman
Addressing Some Common Feminine Concerns.
Varkha's Musings: Short Essays
(Collection of Articles Book 1)
I think I’m frigid. I haven’t been able to achieve orgasm through intercourse but whenever my partner strokes and caresses my clitoris I can’t begin to tell you how I feel. However, I’ve heard that that’s not the ‘real’ thing and only when a woman achieves orgasm in penetration is she a ‘real’ woman, capable of ‘authentic’ orgasms. Anything other than that is supposed to be second-rate. Tell me if that is true?
It’s been 3 years now and we haven’t had sex. My husband just doesn’t come close to me in any sexual way. I beg and plead but he just turns away. I am beginning to suspect that he has become impotent. He refuses to come with me to see a doctor either. Please help me.
My husband is besotted by oral sex and I can’t stand it. Initially I complied so that I wouldn’t put him off but now I find it harder and harder to oblige. This results in us fighting in bed and our sex life has gone for a toss. He insists that he needs it and I hold my ground that he does not and can enjoy himself in many other ways. Neither of us is budging from our views and it’s impacting both of us terribly. We haven’t made love fo...
I am a married woman of 28. I have been married since the last 3 years. However, I have not yet consummated my marriage. Ours was an arranged marriage, however we courted for about six months so we had gotten familiar enough with each other. Our honeymoon was a disaster. We both thought it was due to fatigue of the elaborate wedding ceremony. But even after we returned we are not able to complete the act. I clamp up so badly that I do n...